Difficult times

A major problem in life will never knock your doors and come.It will come suddenly just like unexpected guests.And you must have to deal with it as you can't say 'get out' to your guests so with the difficulties.
Your life is stable,then it is good.
If not,then you need a gift hamper of positivity to deal with it .

First of all a sudden difficulty will make your nights sleepless and you will be filled with fear and unsurity.

What you will learn from these difficulties is only one thing which you take it very lightly on daily basis. And that thing is good thoughts and positivity about everything and everyone.
Because you are going to enter in in difficult mode only when you had constantly made your mind a mess;when you have frequently changed your decision and was doubtful on each decision you've made.

I have crossed a bad phase of life few years ago after which I have learnt many minute things about life.You know we are silly humans so I was about to fall again in difficult trap of life but my knowledge saved me.I observed my thoughts,feeling & actions and I found that they were very destructive.I understood why I was about to be in a great turmoil.

So I made a firm decision of being stable on positivity.

Our subconscious mind is like a crazy stalker who hears & sees everything then follows it like a crazy fan,at the same time we are unaware about it.So for this crazy stalker,I placed few positive quotes in the places I go often at my residence.Even I changed my phone's wallpaper and changed the way I look upto myself & others.
Now I don't hate anyone , I love everyone.

It worked and I'm moving ahead.

Don't take gratitude for granted because it has the power to change your good or bad time.Our hatred is not going to take us anywhere.

Give thanks to god for just anything frequently.

Crime of being sad.

You are a criminal..
The only difference is that your crime is not covered under law because it has been ignored always :(

Your crime is "hurting yourself".
"Stopping yourself from happpines".

Your crime is blaming ..crying for past and failures..hating others..not believing yourself.
Neglecting your inner voice in crowd noise.

You will get punishment for this crime for a life time in the form of bad health;relation & career.

In the name of independence.. you are making yourself alone..sad..depressed.. Learn that true freedom starts from within,where you can laugh freely and nobody could even see it because it is within you. And It is known as peace.

Yes try to become independent but not at the cost of your happiness. Don't isolate yourself from the people you love in the name of freedom because it will end up painfully and only you will be suffering.

You really don't need to care about others view cos its an ocean sometimes green(bad) sometimes blue(good)...the fishes keeps swimming so there thoughts and mouths..

Come to my home I will show you a artificial bird sanctuary I have created.. I will show you how We are obliged to speak positively..the food we eat made with soo much love..come & watch soooo many polka dots butterflies in my garden..I will show you 5 street dogs which daily drops me to my home because we love & feed them..

you can visualise how we can create and surround ourselves by immense good positive feelings through our smart actions.

I know what is the reason behind your crime of hurting yourself.
So listen!
You know you are big lizard.. :D
Really...how??
You get sticked to sadness like lizard to walls..roams here and there.. & do nothing.

So just,

• Be like peacock..dance like them in rain...
• Be like elephant..splash water & play with your frnds and enjoy..
• Be like monkey..jump-jump-jump out of happiness..
• Be like dolphins..dance & play
• Be like kangaroo..keep your favourite things & memories in your mind-like pouch & live life.
• Be like butterfly.. Always colorful & flying..

Is this enough??? Or else you need more wild life examples??? :D Because..
Really I don't know how to make your sad face a happy one. :) so give me a big smile.
:)