Past Life Family!

Happy family is a myth. We all are bounded with past life Karma.

Our relations are pre destined.

Our parents, our siblings, our kids, our spouse..All were part of our past family. The dynamics of relation could be interchangeable in past life and present life.

Their toxic or aggressive, gentle or loving behavior towards you in this lifetime is your past life karma.

But if you get entangled up in reacting and behaving negatively towards them then you get more karma added up for your next life.

Better to be mature and forgive them and move out from situation mentally as quick as you can.

We are not here to curse, say bad words to anyone. God gave us one throat, so better to utilize it in good way by speaking the name of god.. Words of kindness and love.

In current situations, If you can handle criticism.. You can rule the world. Appreciation does nothing.. Appreciation is for fragile flowers who cannot tolerate the excess heat. Criticism does everything, it points out our mistakes for free, so we can improve ourselves more, it helps us to survive in toughest mode.In present world, people have unstable thoughts due to so much stress and anxiety which brings down their appreciative nature. So better to not expect anything from anyone.

Criticism is for tough cactus who can survive without water in sunny desert alone.

If you want to stay longer and prosper.. Learn to take criticism positively and in your favour.

But mind it, criticism and DISRESPECT are two different things. Never tolerate DISRESPECT from anyone. If anyone disrespect your boundaries, your identity, your self esteem & respect, your talents your family , your god, your culture & nation.. Please give them the taste of their own medicine. No need to give discount to Psycho _ Narcissistic people.🙏

Aware of vampires!

Being an empath, we need to protect

Ourselves from people faking sadness and worries although they are doing good secretly. Their aim is to only distract you from your aim which they can't do without some drama.

Always stay away from dramatic people until they are genuine, truthful and kind.

Once you get aware that someone is draining your energy soo much that you don't feel motivated to do work another minute.. You can regain your power back.

How to protect ourselves from these?

Mental Awareness is the answer.

Once you become aware of TRUTH they loses their power over you. You knowing, that you know thier intentions turns around the game. Just be silent, when they verbally attack you be ready to attack them back. That's when they loses and gets demotivated to suck your energy next time. Then they go and hunt someone else.

Handling Burdens?

Sometimes we are overloaded with works. Suddenly so much work overflows to us without which next day would become problmatic.

In order to handle all at once, we accept and carry the given work.

To save our time, we should plan and then offload little part of responsiblity to someone else till we come back managing further burdens. There are chances that people won't do 100% of work.. That's okay.. We can handle the rest.

While working with others never expect that someone will do 100% of your expectation. Always keep 25% chances as reserved for incompletness of work.

Be smart, manage time smartly without burdening yourself too much. 🌻

Responsibility

We are not responsible for others emotion towards us or others.

We are responsible for ours. We can control only our emotions not others. We can't burden our expectations on others shoulder's. Nobody is responsible for our happiness except ourselves.

In this tight packed world we are thinking to free ourselves from something. That something bothers us deep down.. We think its career, family or friend bothering us.. Which in reality is not! Its our negligence towards our ownselves is always bothering us. When focus is reverted to self than we feel good.. Peace.. Mind is silent.. Thoughts are calm. 🌻

Exit door!

Coming out of negative and problematic people seems tough at first but once we learn to handle ourselves we can handle anyone in this world.

Recognizing our own traits, bad habits, behavioural pattern on different things, our anger, our stress.. If we can find reason of all these which is within us.. Its by asking questions to self and answering it honestly.. We can fix the problems within us and make solid foundation within us.. Then we can tackle the world without stress and worry.

 Like, you are doing some work and you get slightly burnt from something.. The first thing comes to our mind is negativity, blame and sudden anger. But if we train ourselves to not to panic in problems but the first thing to Think should be " To Find Solution " instead of wasting our energy in worrying . To fix and repair the issue and to do something to fix issue if same problem occurs in future.. how we will deal??

Like, if hands would get burnt in future,In advance..we should keep honey & ointment ready to use & available all time.

We should learn from our mistake and correct it with our advance action.🌻

Same Time!

We all have got 24hours. Right?

What we make out of it depends on us.. Either we create something or nothing.

Believer of god are the most content people on earth. We crave for consistent happiness! Right? But do we get it consistently? No.

First understand what is happiness?

If you feel sudden elation of good feeling, its happiness for you. What creates this elation in actual? Answer is energy. Energy is all around us and also within us which we ignore. When our focus shift and matches with others energy we laugh, we smile. It means there are surely higher energies working around us. If we want to connect to Supreme happiness we need raise our inner power through meditation. 😇🕉️

Drawing Line!

Drawing line between what you like and what you don't like is important so that we can make decision on time.

With experience our likes and dislikes changes but both should be joined with our core values to maintain stability in this roller coaster life.

So many things on daily basis affects us but we should clear our thoughts instantly to enhance inner strength otherwise we would loose focus on good things happening for us. 🌻

Sense of Security!

The most basic necessity of life is safety.. Its human nature to feel that. But if we are in touch with divine powers we know that we are always protected by god. If any day someone close leaves us temporary or permanently, our life would become out of order & dark if we are disconnected from god.

The point is we have all the things to make or break in life but our consistent efforts takes us to peaceful place.

Nothing in life is served in gold plate, we have to do work whether small or big leaving all burdens & expectations at door step. Doing work with expectations will create stress and anxiety. Doing work as work of god will create deep happiness and completeness.It is like spiritual,practical & emotional wants merged to aim at our life's mission. Bringing more clarity, more truth in life.😇

Enhancing Happiness

We have to strive to extend our happiness always. There's no need to get stuck over issues. We can resolve issues and take fair decision which makes us happy really from our hearts. In the end, our happiness matters & people we love matters at our last moments of life.

Career can be sorted out, family can be dealt but what about you as a person? What about 'self'?? Did we really cared about our soul ever in life? Sense of self is important to navigate through life without fear.

Fear blocks us, limits us. But if we can surpass this we can see light in the tunnel, be in the light.🌻

Return to Self

Always come back to self after dealing with the world, family & friends.

Coming back makes our goal more clearer,we get time to see what choice and decision are good and fair for self and others. Returning ensures awareness of truth and false, it enlightens our mood and confirms basic security to self which we easily ignore. Thats why people are getting easily insecure,jealous and competitive.. lacking concentration and will power because we are fully consumed by people, family friends and phones for whole day. Give yourself a break to come back to self through meditation and self care. Appreciate yourself for being such a excellent person tackling everything and trying to reach daily goal.👍

That's how we have grand comeback for later day. 

Taste of Haste!

Energy is free flowing. With so much daily work we can overwhelm ourselves and our feelings which are let out at loneliness in silence. Silence gives space for reflection. The voices and faces which we ignore are reflected back not to scare you & bring misery but to learn, to understand there are higher power than us looking over us always. If we come out from mental space, from running thoughts in loop.. We can see clear emotion, energy, peace.

If we look at people as energy, as aura, as soul instead of faces,conversation & memories then we can break free from sadness and heavy heart pain.

Pain happens when we grow which is necessary to happen. Without pain we won't know what is temporary! & what is permanent. Pain is a ladder to reach utmost happiness of love towards god. Once you reach it, you get immunity booster towards all pains & difficulty of life's. We all are one energy of love and kindness operating at different age, place, family, country. Why all saints have smiling face? Because they love love and god without fear and stress. 💛