At which stage we met?

Whether people honours or dishonors you depends on at which stage of life they met you.

When you learn to stand up for yourself and others, you don't need others approval.. Even enemy starts to respect you.

But at our lowest phase, you will only see people laughing at your struggles from distance.. Demotivating you.. Belittling you.. Ignoring you..Our situation decides others behaviour specially of selfish one.

The purely god gifted person will stay with you in worst.. When you have nothing.. When people backstabs you.. When you are lying on hospital bed.. Even if you did no good to that person.. Some angelic person stays.. God cares for us so they send people for help.. But Do you recognize them on time before they leave forever.. before you regret of taking them for granted..before under-estimating their efforts & sacrifices for you..

With time we learn to tackle problems on our own but the one who supported us on dark times are real gem. These gem are send from heaven.

As we grow, we meet people who truly respects and values us soo much that we start to doubt because past people treated us like we are nothing in this world.

Truth is you were always valuable, it takes right person to see. Wrong people makes our life difficult matrix. Right one solves the matrix.

Are you a Deer strucked?

We are possessed with one particular idea of past which we desperately wished for. Did the wish happened? No. We tend to paint our wish with stubbornness and filter it with magical or worst feelings.. Result of which is "stuck". Years passed but still we are stuck with that idea. If we give wings to that idea and let it fly wherever it wants to fly we would be free in our present condition. We will feel more fresh and new. The present would smell like flowers because we let our rotten struck idea go.

Only few corrections are needed to fix our mind. Before we knew even the word depression,we would heal quickly. But now a days even a healthy person by hearing this word 100times a day would adopt its symptoms. Words are powerful. So hear affirmations 100 times a day. Don't fall in the pit of business techniques of fake mental health crows. Jo pagal nahi bhi hoga, usko bhi pagal bna dete ye.

We are worthy to live in happiness. People's mouth can't weigh our emotions because if they don't care, we also don't care what they say.. When they are in need they will smooth talk and do buttering anyway..

 So make your worth by focusing on most important person on earth.. "You".

Bring warmth of positivity in the coldness of your life. Become immune to shivering thoughts so they don't attack you anytime.Immunity to thoughts comes from fresh air, fresh mindset by flowing freely not controlling everything but enjoying the adventure of life the way it is.