Our relations are pre destined.
Our parents, our siblings, our kids, our spouse..All were part of our past family. The dynamics of relation could be interchangeable in past life and present life.
Their toxic or aggressive, gentle or loving behavior towards you in this lifetime is your past life karma.
But if you get entangled up in reacting and behaving negatively towards them then you get more karma added up for your next life.
Better to be mature and forgive them and move out from situation mentally as quick as you can.
We are not here to curse, say bad words to anyone. God gave us one throat, so better to utilize it in good way by speaking the name of god.. Words of kindness and love.
In current situations, If you can handle criticism.. You can rule the world. Appreciation does nothing.. Appreciation is for fragile flowers who cannot tolerate the excess heat. Criticism does everything, it points out our mistakes for free, so we can improve ourselves more, it helps us to survive in toughest mode.In present world, people have unstable thoughts due to so much stress and anxiety which brings down their appreciative nature. So better to not expect anything from anyone.
Criticism is for tough cactus who can survive without water in sunny desert alone.
If you want to stay longer and prosper.. Learn to take criticism positively and in your favour.
But mind it, criticism and DISRESPECT are two different things. Never tolerate DISRESPECT from anyone. If anyone disrespect your boundaries, your identity, your self esteem & respect, your talents your family , your god, your culture & nation.. Please give them the taste of their own medicine. No need to give discount to Psycho _ Narcissistic people.🙏
