Catching Butterfly!

In life you can't be rigid, you have to be flexible. Stubborness in wrong things leads us nowhere. We have to free that butterfly from our hands. Yes the butterfly is so beautiful, we want to keep it and see daily but we are thinking about us only by being selfish. What about butterfly? Does butterfly deserve to be in such selfish hands? What are those wings for if butterfly can't fly? Ultimately we have to release them in sky... See them fly high.

Life is easy if we stop capturing people unnecessary in our life and memories.

Once you capture it, you have to save them. Saving requires space. So we capture soo much that our memory is full and we hang in life. To release is the best way to resume our paused life.

Remove the load of peoples gossip and opinion. If you are confident and secure in yourself, those people would become your follower one day.

Don't loose your mind in arguing and correcting psycopaths.. They will learn in their own way.. The hard way.

Problems are a great teacher. It makes us humble and down to earth.

Till then live your existence and help natural world.

Make your own way in the jungles of mankind.

Over thinkers walking on deserts!

Work doesn't make us that much tired but overthinking do. Thinking too much can make our body exhausted without doing any work.Overthinking is like walking on desert endlessly.

So..Even it can make us sick. A healthy thinking comes when we let things be and not overstress about result.

When we are controlling the results, thinking pattern changes and we start to focus on future instead of present.. We neglect our family time and our hobby time which is a danger sign for healthy lifestyle.

Here self confidence plays huge role.. Even if things don't work out our happiness won't be affected by its outcome because we are confident about ourself that we will make our way and things will work positively in the way we want.

You know happiness just doesn't come & go.. Happiness is created by us & held by us. We can create and celebrate small moments of life with others to enhance our happiness. Sharing multiplies happiness. Instead of wasting our time on negative thoughts & people, we can use our time to care & share. Thats why we live here.. Right!

At which stage we met?

Whether people honours or dishonors you depends on at which stage of life they met you.

When you learn to stand up for yourself and others, you don't need others approval.. Even enemy starts to respect you.

But at our lowest phase, you will only see people laughing at your struggles from distance.. Demotivating you.. Belittling you.. Ignoring you..Our situation decides others behaviour specially of selfish one.

The purely god gifted person will stay with you in worst.. When you have nothing.. When people backstabs you.. When you are lying on hospital bed.. Even if you did no good to that person.. Some angelic person stays.. God cares for us so they send people for help.. But Do you recognize them on time before they leave forever.. before you regret of taking them for granted..before under-estimating their efforts & sacrifices for you..

With time we learn to tackle problems on our own but the one who supported us on dark times are real gem. These gem are send from heaven.

As we grow, we meet people who truly respects and values us soo much that we start to doubt because past people treated us like we are nothing in this world.

Truth is you were always valuable, it takes right person to see. Wrong people makes our life difficult matrix. Right one solves the matrix.

Are you a Deer strucked?

We are possessed with one particular idea of past which we desperately wished for. Did the wish happened? No. We tend to paint our wish with stubbornness and filter it with magical or worst feelings.. Result of which is "stuck". Years passed but still we are stuck with that idea. If we give wings to that idea and let it fly wherever it wants to fly we would be free in our present condition. We will feel more fresh and new. The present would smell like flowers because we let our rotten struck idea go.

Only few corrections are needed to fix our mind. Before we knew even the word depression,we would heal quickly. But now a days even a healthy person by hearing this word 100times a day would adopt its symptoms. Words are powerful. So hear affirmations 100 times a day. Don't fall in the pit of business techniques of fake mental health crows. Jo pagal nahi bhi hoga, usko bhi pagal bna dete ye.

We are worthy to live in happiness. People's mouth can't weigh our emotions because if they don't care, we also don't care what they say.. When they are in need they will smooth talk and do buttering anyway..

 So make your worth by focusing on most important person on earth.. "You".

Bring warmth of positivity in the coldness of your life. Become immune to shivering thoughts so they don't attack you anytime.Immunity to thoughts comes from fresh air, fresh mindset by flowing freely not controlling everything but enjoying the adventure of life the way it is.

Living in lala land.

Understanding others is also an important thing to increase calmness in life.

People are so busy yet anxious. So worried with sleepless night, teary eyes.

To expect all the good things from person is like living in lala land. To expect from ourself and put efforts on it, is the best thing. We regret wasting our time & emotions on wrong one. But this teaches us great lesson for future that whether right or wrong.. Never waste your time & life. Life is a limited time frame to do your soul mission, if it's undone it is carried forward to next birth.

It easy to see worldy things, who doesn't want. But that emptiness of not completing your soul mission would always be there even if you have all the things & people in life.

Don't die empty. Die doing your soul mission with smiling face.

One soul from star fell down on earth, trying to fit with humans, exhausted of useless competition in everything, stuck with machine like humans, searching for someone like themselves but end up finding them on stars. The journey is alone because the mission is big and supported by god.

Angel v/s Devil.

For selfish reason people tend to use generous & pure hearted person in all the ways they can.

In the process, good people become multi operators even if they don't know or have something they still try & help.They become home fixer, money fixer, emotional healer, mentor, nurse of sick..In the end give their all Time, efforts,emotion, savings, strength by sacrificing their own.

In the end they are left with lethargic, weak, exhausted, Depressesd feelings, drained off 360°.. At cost of delays in their own work.. The delays will continue due to never ending demanding devils of their life.

If kinder people ask some favour these devils won't help because they think this kind person would slip from our hands & wont help & do our work. So they refuse to help with excuse.

Kind people can't help but help.

They have seen worst, faced worst, dealt with worst.. They know in the end we die.. So they live life like its their last day on earth.

People don't understand this & think them as fool.. Dumb.. Useless fellow..

One fine day these devils become terribly sick.. Some are financially robbed off.. Some lose their loved one.. Some socially humiliated.. Then they understand that kind nature now & respects good people now but still little bit.

God sends good people in bad peoples life so they can help them become better & nicer. But instead these devils vacuums good people energy & feeds their ego on it.. Until they leave.. Now devils are left with devils ruining life.

Good people heal and meet their happy soul family and die peacefully..

See silver lining soon!

Window of thoughts, room of comfort, roads of journey.. Life begins and then ends here.

We move place to place. We greet, we meet, we leave. Always in the hope of something better..

But the person inside us is the same. We thought it would change by moving.. It would forget everything.. But NO.. We remember everything.. Now more in absolute way.. We see clearly.

Escaping the address of pain won't heal until we deal.

We escape, avoid because we are afraid.. Afraid of hurt caused to heart. But living in fear is worst then hurt. Fear must be overlapped with self believe.

Dear fear...

I know you are afraid of so many things and people. I know you are protective of us.But we can't live whole life in darkness. This time we will love ourself more, appreciate little things we do, be flowing freely without judgements of others..Through the sparkling night of forest..We will walk in the ladder of stars and reach the moon.. See the earth silver lining soon..

Support in silent storms.

When we are surrounded with troubles.. Betrayal.. Gossiping.. Toxicity.. All we need is someone to hear us silently.. Understand our pain..let our heart get fully cracked for once and all.

Gratefully at these silent storm.. Nobody is with us.. The one who really cared.. we already lost them for good due to temporary influencers who are actually jealous of good connections.. & we lose good one Coz ego must be the winner.. Thats societal norm to abide by if you want to be part of popular gangs.

After some time..The support we need is nowhere even if we seek,we won't speak.

Except god there's no way out. Surrendering fully towards god is the only peaceful option left out. But along side god, people who are our soul family prays for us silently and we are completely unaware of this.

We are not alone, someone out there prays for our safety, health, happiness.

No gangs and groups can harm us as long as people's true colors are being showed to you and betrayals are being revealed of people whom you shared things & trusted.. Gladly lies are exposed before something worst happen.. So that we can walk out silently.. And move towards our soul family..and meet them this time without ego & fear but  courageously & expressively. ⭐️

Moon frying emotions!

When environment changes, humans mood changes, behavior changes and reaction to normal things changes.

Today, I am talking about moon cycles. Our emotional heath during full moon and no moon.

People who are highly sensitive are affected by this. People who are empathetic and compassionate face this sudden emotional turmoil every month due to moon phases.They become over thinker and depressed as the moon and ocean have direct impact on us.

We can bring emotional Stablity by recognizing this pattern. If you are mentally prepared for sudden emotional outbreak in Purnima(full moon) and Amavasya (no moon) we can decrease the severity of it caused in our daily life.

Family and friends would be less judgemental and would be more understanding about your fluctuating behaviour.

World needs more healing and less pain.

If we correct and recognize these patterns in ourselves first then we can help others also.

Brain does not need to put its hands in emotion otherwise it would destroy relation with overthinking and logics. Brain only needs to alert us when we are unstable emotionally and crack some good jokes to relief our heart and mind.

Yes, apply your sense of humour to yourself intentionally when your mood is spoiled.

Although God's help is always present with us. Just believe.