Engage heart in God

Some days are full of stress, some full of anxiety.

While everything was going right and upwards, vibes around us changes and some anger and hatred pops out in few minds. That vibes reaches us and heart absorbs it and feels anxious.

So how to protect our heart from such vibes?

Simplest way is spirituality. When our heart is already engaged in god we don't accept negative emotion of others. 

Past Life Family!

Happy family is a myth. We all are bounded with past life Karma.

Our relations are pre destined.

Our parents, our siblings, our kids, our spouse..All were part of our past family. The dynamics of relation could be interchangeable in past life and present life.

Their toxic or aggressive, gentle or loving behavior towards you in this lifetime is your past life karma.

But if you get entangled up in reacting and behaving negatively towards them then you get more karma added up for your next life.

Better to be mature and forgive them and move out from situation mentally as quick as you can.

We are not here to curse, say bad words to anyone. God gave us one throat, so better to utilize it in good way by speaking the name of god.. Words of kindness and love.

In current situations, If you can handle criticism.. You can rule the world. Appreciation does nothing.. Appreciation is for fragile flowers who cannot tolerate the excess heat. Criticism does everything, it points out our mistakes for free, so we can improve ourselves more, it helps us to survive in toughest mode.In present world, people have unstable thoughts due to so much stress and anxiety which brings down their appreciative nature. So better to not expect anything from anyone.

Criticism is for tough cactus who can survive without water in sunny desert alone.

If you want to stay longer and prosper.. Learn to take criticism positively and in your favour.

But mind it, criticism and DISRESPECT are two different things. Never tolerate DISRESPECT from anyone. If anyone disrespect your boundaries, your identity, your self esteem & respect, your talents your family , your god, your culture & nation.. Please give them the taste of their own medicine. No need to give discount to Psycho _ Narcissistic people.🙏

Aware of vampires!

Being an empath, we need to protect

Ourselves from people faking sadness and worries although they are doing good secretly. Their aim is to only distract you from your aim which they can't do without some drama.

Always stay away from dramatic people until they are genuine, truthful and kind.

Once you get aware that someone is draining your energy soo much that you don't feel motivated to do work another minute.. You can regain your power back.

How to protect ourselves from these?

Mental Awareness is the answer.

Once you become aware of TRUTH they loses their power over you. You knowing, that you know thier intentions turns around the game. Just be silent, when they verbally attack you be ready to attack them back. That's when they loses and gets demotivated to suck your energy next time. Then they go and hunt someone else.

Handling Burdens?

Sometimes we are overloaded with works. Suddenly so much work overflows to us without which next day would become problmatic.

In order to handle all at once, we accept and carry the given work.

To save our time, we should plan and then offload little part of responsiblity to someone else till we come back managing further burdens. There are chances that people won't do 100% of work.. That's okay.. We can handle the rest.

While working with others never expect that someone will do 100% of your expectation. Always keep 25% chances as reserved for incompletness of work.

Be smart, manage time smartly without burdening yourself too much. 🌻

Responsibility

We are not responsible for others emotion towards us or others.

We are responsible for ours. We can control only our emotions not others. We can't burden our expectations on others shoulder's. Nobody is responsible for our happiness except ourselves.

In this tight packed world we are thinking to free ourselves from something. That something bothers us deep down.. We think its career, family or friend bothering us.. Which in reality is not! Its our negligence towards our ownselves is always bothering us. When focus is reverted to self than we feel good.. Peace.. Mind is silent.. Thoughts are calm. 🌻

Exit door!

Coming out of negative and problematic people seems tough at first but once we learn to handle ourselves we can handle anyone in this world.

Recognizing our own traits, bad habits, behavioural pattern on different things, our anger, our stress.. If we can find reason of all these which is within us.. Its by asking questions to self and answering it honestly.. We can fix the problems within us and make solid foundation within us.. Then we can tackle the world without stress and worry.

 Like, you are doing some work and you get slightly burnt from something.. The first thing comes to our mind is negativity, blame and sudden anger. But if we train ourselves to not to panic in problems but the first thing to Think should be " To Find Solution " instead of wasting our energy in worrying . To fix and repair the issue and to do something to fix issue if same problem occurs in future.. how we will deal??

Like, if hands would get burnt in future,In advance..we should keep honey & ointment ready to use & available all time.

We should learn from our mistake and correct it with our advance action.🌻

Same Time!

We all have got 24hours. Right?

What we make out of it depends on us.. Either we create something or nothing.

Believer of god are the most content people on earth. We crave for consistent happiness! Right? But do we get it consistently? No.

First understand what is happiness?

If you feel sudden elation of good feeling, its happiness for you. What creates this elation in actual? Answer is energy. Energy is all around us and also within us which we ignore. When our focus shift and matches with others energy we laugh, we smile. It means there are surely higher energies working around us. If we want to connect to Supreme happiness we need raise our inner power through meditation. 😇🕉️

Drawing Line!

Drawing line between what you like and what you don't like is important so that we can make decision on time.

With experience our likes and dislikes changes but both should be joined with our core values to maintain stability in this roller coaster life.

So many things on daily basis affects us but we should clear our thoughts instantly to enhance inner strength otherwise we would loose focus on good things happening for us. 🌻

Sense of Security!

The most basic necessity of life is safety.. Its human nature to feel that. But if we are in touch with divine powers we know that we are always protected by god. If any day someone close leaves us temporary or permanently, our life would become out of order & dark if we are disconnected from god.

The point is we have all the things to make or break in life but our consistent efforts takes us to peaceful place.

Nothing in life is served in gold plate, we have to do work whether small or big leaving all burdens & expectations at door step. Doing work with expectations will create stress and anxiety. Doing work as work of god will create deep happiness and completeness.It is like spiritual,practical & emotional wants merged to aim at our life's mission. Bringing more clarity, more truth in life.😇

Enhancing Happiness

We have to strive to extend our happiness always. There's no need to get stuck over issues. We can resolve issues and take fair decision which makes us happy really from our hearts. In the end, our happiness matters & people we love matters at our last moments of life.

Career can be sorted out, family can be dealt but what about you as a person? What about 'self'?? Did we really cared about our soul ever in life? Sense of self is important to navigate through life without fear.

Fear blocks us, limits us. But if we can surpass this we can see light in the tunnel, be in the light.🌻

Return to Self

Always come back to self after dealing with the world, family & friends.

Coming back makes our goal more clearer,we get time to see what choice and decision are good and fair for self and others. Returning ensures awareness of truth and false, it enlightens our mood and confirms basic security to self which we easily ignore. Thats why people are getting easily insecure,jealous and competitive.. lacking concentration and will power because we are fully consumed by people, family friends and phones for whole day. Give yourself a break to come back to self through meditation and self care. Appreciate yourself for being such a excellent person tackling everything and trying to reach daily goal.👍

That's how we have grand comeback for later day. 

Taste of Haste!

Energy is free flowing. With so much daily work we can overwhelm ourselves and our feelings which are let out at loneliness in silence. Silence gives space for reflection. The voices and faces which we ignore are reflected back not to scare you & bring misery but to learn, to understand there are higher power than us looking over us always. If we come out from mental space, from running thoughts in loop.. We can see clear emotion, energy, peace.

If we look at people as energy, as aura, as soul instead of faces,conversation & memories then we can break free from sadness and heavy heart pain.

Pain happens when we grow which is necessary to happen. Without pain we won't know what is temporary! & what is permanent. Pain is a ladder to reach utmost happiness of love towards god. Once you reach it, you get immunity booster towards all pains & difficulty of life's. We all are one energy of love and kindness operating at different age, place, family, country. Why all saints have smiling face? Because they love love and god without fear and stress. 💛

In coming years!

In coming years, there will be worst epidemic than coronavirus. The question is ..Is the world ready to face another and final wipe out of half of Earth's population? 

No we are not ready because we are not visionaries. The present is so tumultuous that we hardly can think about future. But thinking of future is of utmost urgency for survival of humans. 

What if the technology of whole world fails and collapses. We are completely dependent on technology now. But in future natural calamities and human faults will make humans on the verge of extinction.

Machines will over ride humans commands and will go beyond our control for which whole technological environment would needed to be stopped to regain control for humans. 

These are facts about to happen . This is not at all fantasy or fan fiction. The problem is real and big. 

Almost all countries would suffer from hunger due to shortage of food . Yes, this cruel effect will climate have on us. 

Oceans will surpass lands. There will be nothing left except faith to survive. 

Catching Butterfly!

In life you can't be rigid, you have to be flexible. Stubborness in wrong things leads us nowhere. We have to free that butterfly from our hands. Yes the butterfly is so beautiful, we want to keep it and see daily but we are thinking about us only by being selfish. What about butterfly? Does butterfly deserve to be in such selfish hands? What are those wings for if butterfly can't fly? Ultimately we have to release them in sky... See them fly high.

Life is easy if we stop capturing people unnecessary in our life and memories.

Once you capture it, you have to save them. Saving requires space. So we capture soo much that our memory is full and we hang in life. To release is the best way to resume our paused life.

Remove the load of peoples gossip and opinion. If you are confident and secure in yourself, those people would become your follower one day.

Don't loose your mind in arguing and correcting psycopaths.. They will learn in their own way.. The hard way.

Problems are a great teacher. It makes us humble and down to earth.

Till then live your existence and help natural world.

Make your own way in the jungles of mankind.

Over thinkers walking on deserts!

Work doesn't make us that much tired but overthinking do. Thinking too much can make our body exhausted without doing any work.Overthinking is like walking on desert endlessly.

So..Even it can make us sick. A healthy thinking comes when we let things be and not overstress about result.

When we are controlling the results, thinking pattern changes and we start to focus on future instead of present.. We neglect our family time and our hobby time which is a danger sign for healthy lifestyle.

Here self confidence plays huge role.. Even if things don't work out our happiness won't be affected by its outcome because we are confident about ourself that we will make our way and things will work positively in the way we want.

You know happiness just doesn't come & go.. Happiness is created by us & held by us. We can create and celebrate small moments of life with others to enhance our happiness. Sharing multiplies happiness. Instead of wasting our time on negative thoughts & people, we can use our time to care & share. Thats why we live here.. Right!

At which stage we met?

Whether people honours or dishonors you depends on at which stage of life they met you.

When you learn to stand up for yourself and others, you don't need others approval.. Even enemy starts to respect you.

But at our lowest phase, you will only see people laughing at your struggles from distance.. Demotivating you.. Belittling you.. Ignoring you..Our situation decides others behaviour specially of selfish one.

The purely god gifted person will stay with you in worst.. When you have nothing.. When people backstabs you.. When you are lying on hospital bed.. Even if you did no good to that person.. Some angelic person stays.. God cares for us so they send people for help.. But Do you recognize them on time before they leave forever.. before you regret of taking them for granted..before under-estimating their efforts & sacrifices for you..

With time we learn to tackle problems on our own but the one who supported us on dark times are real gem. These gem are send from heaven.

As we grow, we meet people who truly respects and values us soo much that we start to doubt because past people treated us like we are nothing in this world.

Truth is you were always valuable, it takes right person to see. Wrong people makes our life difficult matrix. Right one solves the matrix.

Are you a Deer strucked?

We are possessed with one particular idea of past which we desperately wished for. Did the wish happened? No. We tend to paint our wish with stubbornness and filter it with magical or worst feelings.. Result of which is "stuck". Years passed but still we are stuck with that idea. If we give wings to that idea and let it fly wherever it wants to fly we would be free in our present condition. We will feel more fresh and new. The present would smell like flowers because we let our rotten struck idea go.

Only few corrections are needed to fix our mind. Before we knew even the word depression,we would heal quickly. But now a days even a healthy person by hearing this word 100times a day would adopt its symptoms. Words are powerful. So hear affirmations 100 times a day. Don't fall in the pit of business techniques of fake mental health crows. Jo pagal nahi bhi hoga, usko bhi pagal bna dete ye.

We are worthy to live in happiness. People's mouth can't weigh our emotions because if they don't care, we also don't care what they say.. When they are in need they will smooth talk and do buttering anyway..

 So make your worth by focusing on most important person on earth.. "You".

Bring warmth of positivity in the coldness of your life. Become immune to shivering thoughts so they don't attack you anytime.Immunity to thoughts comes from fresh air, fresh mindset by flowing freely not controlling everything but enjoying the adventure of life the way it is.

Living in lala land.

Understanding others is also an important thing to increase calmness in life.

People are so busy yet anxious. So worried with sleepless night, teary eyes.

To expect all the good things from person is like living in lala land. To expect from ourself and put efforts on it, is the best thing. We regret wasting our time & emotions on wrong one. But this teaches us great lesson for future that whether right or wrong.. Never waste your time & life. Life is a limited time frame to do your soul mission, if it's undone it is carried forward to next birth.

It easy to see worldy things, who doesn't want. But that emptiness of not completing your soul mission would always be there even if you have all the things & people in life.

Don't die empty. Die doing your soul mission with smiling face.

One soul from star fell down on earth, trying to fit with humans, exhausted of useless competition in everything, stuck with machine like humans, searching for someone like themselves but end up finding them on stars. The journey is alone because the mission is big and supported by god.

Angel v/s Devil.

For selfish reason people tend to use generous & pure hearted person in all the ways they can.

In the process, good people become multi operators even if they don't know or have something they still try & help.They become home fixer, money fixer, emotional healer, mentor, nurse of sick..In the end give their all Time, efforts,emotion, savings, strength by sacrificing their own.

In the end they are left with lethargic, weak, exhausted, Depressesd feelings, drained off 360°.. At cost of delays in their own work.. The delays will continue due to never ending demanding devils of their life.

If kinder people ask some favour these devils won't help because they think this kind person would slip from our hands & wont help & do our work. So they refuse to help with excuse.

Kind people can't help but help.

They have seen worst, faced worst, dealt with worst.. They know in the end we die.. So they live life like its their last day on earth.

People don't understand this & think them as fool.. Dumb.. Useless fellow..

One fine day these devils become terribly sick.. Some are financially robbed off.. Some lose their loved one.. Some socially humiliated.. Then they understand that kind nature now & respects good people now but still little bit.

God sends good people in bad peoples life so they can help them become better & nicer. But instead these devils vacuums good people energy & feeds their ego on it.. Until they leave.. Now devils are left with devils ruining life.

Good people heal and meet their happy soul family and die peacefully..

See silver lining soon!

Window of thoughts, room of comfort, roads of journey.. Life begins and then ends here.

We move place to place. We greet, we meet, we leave. Always in the hope of something better..

But the person inside us is the same. We thought it would change by moving.. It would forget everything.. But NO.. We remember everything.. Now more in absolute way.. We see clearly.

Escaping the address of pain won't heal until we deal.

We escape, avoid because we are afraid.. Afraid of hurt caused to heart. But living in fear is worst then hurt. Fear must be overlapped with self believe.

Dear fear...

I know you are afraid of so many things and people. I know you are protective of us.But we can't live whole life in darkness. This time we will love ourself more, appreciate little things we do, be flowing freely without judgements of others..Through the sparkling night of forest..We will walk in the ladder of stars and reach the moon.. See the earth silver lining soon..