Past Life Family!

Happy family is a myth. We all are bounded with past life Karma.

Our relations are pre destined.

Our parents, our siblings, our kids, our spouse..All were part of our past family. The dynamics of relation could be interchangeable in past life and present life.

Their toxic or aggressive, gentle or loving behavior towards you in this lifetime is your past life karma.

But if you get entangled up in reacting and behaving negatively towards them then you get more karma added up for your next life.

Better to be mature and forgive them and move out from situation mentally as quick as you can.

We are not here to curse, say bad words to anyone. God gave us one throat, so better to utilize it in good way by speaking the name of god.. Words of kindness and love.

In current situations, If you can handle criticism.. You can rule the world. Appreciation does nothing.. Appreciation is for fragile flowers who cannot tolerate the excess heat. Criticism does everything, it points out our mistakes for free, so we can improve ourselves more, it helps us to survive in toughest mode.In present world, people have unstable thoughts due to so much stress and anxiety which brings down their appreciative nature. So better to not expect anything from anyone.

Criticism is for tough cactus who can survive without water in sunny desert alone.

If you want to stay longer and prosper.. Learn to take criticism positively and in your favour.

But mind it, criticism and DISRESPECT are two different things. Never tolerate DISRESPECT from anyone. If anyone disrespect your boundaries, your identity, your self esteem & respect, your talents your family , your god, your culture & nation.. Please give them the taste of their own medicine. No need to give discount to Psycho _ Narcissistic people.🙏

Aware of vampires!

Being an empath, we need to protect

Ourselves from people faking sadness and worries although they are doing good secretly. Their aim is to only distract you from your aim which they can't do without some drama.

Always stay away from dramatic people until they are genuine, truthful and kind.

Once you get aware that someone is draining your energy soo much that you don't feel motivated to do work another minute.. You can regain your power back.

How to protect ourselves from these?

Mental Awareness is the answer.

Once you become aware of TRUTH they loses their power over you. You knowing, that you know thier intentions turns around the game. Just be silent, when they verbally attack you be ready to attack them back. That's when they loses and gets demotivated to suck your energy next time. Then they go and hunt someone else.

Handling Burdens?

Sometimes we are overloaded with works. Suddenly so much work overflows to us without which next day would become problmatic.

In order to handle all at once, we accept and carry the given work.

To save our time, we should plan and then offload little part of responsiblity to someone else till we come back managing further burdens. There are chances that people won't do 100% of work.. That's okay.. We can handle the rest.

While working with others never expect that someone will do 100% of your expectation. Always keep 25% chances as reserved for incompletness of work.

Be smart, manage time smartly without burdening yourself too much. 🌻

Responsibility

We are not responsible for others emotion towards us or others.

We are responsible for ours. We can control only our emotions not others. We can't burden our expectations on others shoulder's. Nobody is responsible for our happiness except ourselves.

In this tight packed world we are thinking to free ourselves from something. That something bothers us deep down.. We think its career, family or friend bothering us.. Which in reality is not! Its our negligence towards our ownselves is always bothering us. When focus is reverted to self than we feel good.. Peace.. Mind is silent.. Thoughts are calm. 🌻

Exit door!

Coming out of negative and problematic people seems tough at first but once we learn to handle ourselves we can handle anyone in this world.

Recognizing our own traits, bad habits, behavioural pattern on different things, our anger, our stress.. If we can find reason of all these which is within us.. Its by asking questions to self and answering it honestly.. We can fix the problems within us and make solid foundation within us.. Then we can tackle the world without stress and worry.

 Like, you are doing some work and you get slightly burnt from something.. The first thing comes to our mind is negativity, blame and sudden anger. But if we train ourselves to not to panic in problems but the first thing to Think should be " To Find Solution " instead of wasting our energy in worrying . To fix and repair the issue and to do something to fix issue if same problem occurs in future.. how we will deal??

Like, if hands would get burnt in future,In advance..we should keep honey & ointment ready to use & available all time.

We should learn from our mistake and correct it with our advance action.🌻

Same Time!

We all have got 24hours. Right?

What we make out of it depends on us.. Either we create something or nothing.

Believer of god are the most content people on earth. We crave for consistent happiness! Right? But do we get it consistently? No.

First understand what is happiness?

If you feel sudden elation of good feeling, its happiness for you. What creates this elation in actual? Answer is energy. Energy is all around us and also within us which we ignore. When our focus shift and matches with others energy we laugh, we smile. It means there are surely higher energies working around us. If we want to connect to Supreme happiness we need raise our inner power through meditation. 😇🕉️

Drawing Line!

Drawing line between what you like and what you don't like is important so that we can make decision on time.

With experience our likes and dislikes changes but both should be joined with our core values to maintain stability in this roller coaster life.

So many things on daily basis affects us but we should clear our thoughts instantly to enhance inner strength otherwise we would loose focus on good things happening for us. 🌻

Sense of Security!

The most basic necessity of life is safety.. Its human nature to feel that. But if we are in touch with divine powers we know that we are always protected by god. If any day someone close leaves us temporary or permanently, our life would become out of order & dark if we are disconnected from god.

The point is we have all the things to make or break in life but our consistent efforts takes us to peaceful place.

Nothing in life is served in gold plate, we have to do work whether small or big leaving all burdens & expectations at door step. Doing work with expectations will create stress and anxiety. Doing work as work of god will create deep happiness and completeness.It is like spiritual,practical & emotional wants merged to aim at our life's mission. Bringing more clarity, more truth in life.😇

Enhancing Happiness

We have to strive to extend our happiness always. There's no need to get stuck over issues. We can resolve issues and take fair decision which makes us happy really from our hearts. In the end, our happiness matters & people we love matters at our last moments of life.

Career can be sorted out, family can be dealt but what about you as a person? What about 'self'?? Did we really cared about our soul ever in life? Sense of self is important to navigate through life without fear.

Fear blocks us, limits us. But if we can surpass this we can see light in the tunnel, be in the light.🌻

Return to Self

Always come back to self after dealing with the world, family & friends.

Coming back makes our goal more clearer,we get time to see what choice and decision are good and fair for self and others. Returning ensures awareness of truth and false, it enlightens our mood and confirms basic security to self which we easily ignore. Thats why people are getting easily insecure,jealous and competitive.. lacking concentration and will power because we are fully consumed by people, family friends and phones for whole day. Give yourself a break to come back to self through meditation and self care. Appreciate yourself for being such a excellent person tackling everything and trying to reach daily goal.👍

That's how we have grand comeback for later day. 

Taste of Haste!

Energy is free flowing. With so much daily work we can overwhelm ourselves and our feelings which are let out at loneliness in silence. Silence gives space for reflection. The voices and faces which we ignore are reflected back not to scare you & bring misery but to learn, to understand there are higher power than us looking over us always. If we come out from mental space, from running thoughts in loop.. We can see clear emotion, energy, peace.

If we look at people as energy, as aura, as soul instead of faces,conversation & memories then we can break free from sadness and heavy heart pain.

Pain happens when we grow which is necessary to happen. Without pain we won't know what is temporary! & what is permanent. Pain is a ladder to reach utmost happiness of love towards god. Once you reach it, you get immunity booster towards all pains & difficulty of life's. We all are one energy of love and kindness operating at different age, place, family, country. Why all saints have smiling face? Because they love love and god without fear and stress. 💛

In coming years!

In coming years, there will be worst epidemic than coronavirus. The question is ..Is the world ready to face another and final wipe out of half of Earth's population? 

No we are not ready because we are not visionaries. The present is so tumultuous that we hardly can think about future. But thinking of future is of utmost urgency for survival of humans. 

What if the technology of whole world fails and collapses. We are completely dependent on technology now. But in future natural calamities and human faults will make humans on the verge of extinction.

Machines will over ride humans commands and will go beyond our control for which whole technological environment would needed to be stopped to regain control for humans. 

These are facts about to happen . This is not at all fantasy or fan fiction. The problem is real and big. 

Almost all countries would suffer from hunger due to shortage of food . Yes, this cruel effect will climate have on us. 

Oceans will surpass lands. There will be nothing left except faith to survive. 

Catching Butterfly!

In life you can't be rigid, you have to be flexible. Stubborness in wrong things leads us nowhere. We have to free that butterfly from our hands. Yes the butterfly is so beautiful, we want to keep it and see daily but we are thinking about us only by being selfish. What about butterfly? Does butterfly deserve to be in such selfish hands? What are those wings for if butterfly can't fly? Ultimately we have to release them in sky... See them fly high.

Life is easy if we stop capturing people unnecessary in our life and memories.

Once you capture it, you have to save them. Saving requires space. So we capture soo much that our memory is full and we hang in life. To release is the best way to resume our paused life.

Remove the load of peoples gossip and opinion. If you are confident and secure in yourself, those people would become your follower one day.

Don't loose your mind in arguing and correcting psycopaths.. They will learn in their own way.. The hard way.

Problems are a great teacher. It makes us humble and down to earth.

Till then live your existence and help natural world.

Make your own way in the jungles of mankind.

Over thinkers walking on deserts!

Work doesn't make us that much tired but overthinking do. Thinking too much can make our body exhausted without doing any work.Overthinking is like walking on desert endlessly.

So..Even it can make us sick. A healthy thinking comes when we let things be and not overstress about result.

When we are controlling the results, thinking pattern changes and we start to focus on future instead of present.. We neglect our family time and our hobby time which is a danger sign for healthy lifestyle.

Here self confidence plays huge role.. Even if things don't work out our happiness won't be affected by its outcome because we are confident about ourself that we will make our way and things will work positively in the way we want.

You know happiness just doesn't come & go.. Happiness is created by us & held by us. We can create and celebrate small moments of life with others to enhance our happiness. Sharing multiplies happiness. Instead of wasting our time on negative thoughts & people, we can use our time to care & share. Thats why we live here.. Right!

At which stage we met?

Whether people honours or dishonors you depends on at which stage of life they met you.

When you learn to stand up for yourself and others, you don't need others approval.. Even enemy starts to respect you.

But at our lowest phase, you will only see people laughing at your struggles from distance.. Demotivating you.. Belittling you.. Ignoring you..Our situation decides others behaviour specially of selfish one.

The purely god gifted person will stay with you in worst.. When you have nothing.. When people backstabs you.. When you are lying on hospital bed.. Even if you did no good to that person.. Some angelic person stays.. God cares for us so they send people for help.. But Do you recognize them on time before they leave forever.. before you regret of taking them for granted..before under-estimating their efforts & sacrifices for you..

With time we learn to tackle problems on our own but the one who supported us on dark times are real gem. These gem are send from heaven.

As we grow, we meet people who truly respects and values us soo much that we start to doubt because past people treated us like we are nothing in this world.

Truth is you were always valuable, it takes right person to see. Wrong people makes our life difficult matrix. Right one solves the matrix.

Are you a Deer strucked?

We are possessed with one particular idea of past which we desperately wished for. Did the wish happened? No. We tend to paint our wish with stubbornness and filter it with magical or worst feelings.. Result of which is "stuck". Years passed but still we are stuck with that idea. If we give wings to that idea and let it fly wherever it wants to fly we would be free in our present condition. We will feel more fresh and new. The present would smell like flowers because we let our rotten struck idea go.

Only few corrections are needed to fix our mind. Before we knew even the word depression,we would heal quickly. But now a days even a healthy person by hearing this word 100times a day would adopt its symptoms. Words are powerful. So hear affirmations 100 times a day. Don't fall in the pit of business techniques of fake mental health crows. Jo pagal nahi bhi hoga, usko bhi pagal bna dete ye.

We are worthy to live in happiness. People's mouth can't weigh our emotions because if they don't care, we also don't care what they say.. When they are in need they will smooth talk and do buttering anyway..

 So make your worth by focusing on most important person on earth.. "You".

Bring warmth of positivity in the coldness of your life. Become immune to shivering thoughts so they don't attack you anytime.Immunity to thoughts comes from fresh air, fresh mindset by flowing freely not controlling everything but enjoying the adventure of life the way it is.

Living in lala land.

Understanding others is also an important thing to increase calmness in life.

People are so busy yet anxious. So worried with sleepless night, teary eyes.

To expect all the good things from person is like living in lala land. To expect from ourself and put efforts on it, is the best thing. We regret wasting our time & emotions on wrong one. But this teaches us great lesson for future that whether right or wrong.. Never waste your time & life. Life is a limited time frame to do your soul mission, if it's undone it is carried forward to next birth.

It easy to see worldy things, who doesn't want. But that emptiness of not completing your soul mission would always be there even if you have all the things & people in life.

Don't die empty. Die doing your soul mission with smiling face.

One soul from star fell down on earth, trying to fit with humans, exhausted of useless competition in everything, stuck with machine like humans, searching for someone like themselves but end up finding them on stars. The journey is alone because the mission is big and supported by god.

Angel v/s Devil.

For selfish reason people tend to use generous & pure hearted person in all the ways they can.

In the process, good people become multi operators even if they don't know or have something they still try & help.They become home fixer, money fixer, emotional healer, mentor, nurse of sick..In the end give their all Time, efforts,emotion, savings, strength by sacrificing their own.

In the end they are left with lethargic, weak, exhausted, Depressesd feelings, drained off 360°.. At cost of delays in their own work.. The delays will continue due to never ending demanding devils of their life.

If kinder people ask some favour these devils won't help because they think this kind person would slip from our hands & wont help & do our work. So they refuse to help with excuse.

Kind people can't help but help.

They have seen worst, faced worst, dealt with worst.. They know in the end we die.. So they live life like its their last day on earth.

People don't understand this & think them as fool.. Dumb.. Useless fellow..

One fine day these devils become terribly sick.. Some are financially robbed off.. Some lose their loved one.. Some socially humiliated.. Then they understand that kind nature now & respects good people now but still little bit.

God sends good people in bad peoples life so they can help them become better & nicer. But instead these devils vacuums good people energy & feeds their ego on it.. Until they leave.. Now devils are left with devils ruining life.

Good people heal and meet their happy soul family and die peacefully..

See silver lining soon!

Window of thoughts, room of comfort, roads of journey.. Life begins and then ends here.

We move place to place. We greet, we meet, we leave. Always in the hope of something better..

But the person inside us is the same. We thought it would change by moving.. It would forget everything.. But NO.. We remember everything.. Now more in absolute way.. We see clearly.

Escaping the address of pain won't heal until we deal.

We escape, avoid because we are afraid.. Afraid of hurt caused to heart. But living in fear is worst then hurt. Fear must be overlapped with self believe.

Dear fear...

I know you are afraid of so many things and people. I know you are protective of us.But we can't live whole life in darkness. This time we will love ourself more, appreciate little things we do, be flowing freely without judgements of others..Through the sparkling night of forest..We will walk in the ladder of stars and reach the moon.. See the earth silver lining soon..

Support in silent storms.

When we are surrounded with troubles.. Betrayal.. Gossiping.. Toxicity.. All we need is someone to hear us silently.. Understand our pain..let our heart get fully cracked for once and all.

Gratefully at these silent storm.. Nobody is with us.. The one who really cared.. we already lost them for good due to temporary influencers who are actually jealous of good connections.. & we lose good one Coz ego must be the winner.. Thats societal norm to abide by if you want to be part of popular gangs.

After some time..The support we need is nowhere even if we seek,we won't speak.

Except god there's no way out. Surrendering fully towards god is the only peaceful option left out. But along side god, people who are our soul family prays for us silently and we are completely unaware of this.

We are not alone, someone out there prays for our safety, health, happiness.

No gangs and groups can harm us as long as people's true colors are being showed to you and betrayals are being revealed of people whom you shared things & trusted.. Gladly lies are exposed before something worst happen.. So that we can walk out silently.. And move towards our soul family..and meet them this time without ego & fear but  courageously & expressively. ⭐️

Moon frying emotions!

When environment changes, humans mood changes, behavior changes and reaction to normal things changes.

Today, I am talking about moon cycles. Our emotional heath during full moon and no moon.

People who are highly sensitive are affected by this. People who are empathetic and compassionate face this sudden emotional turmoil every month due to moon phases.They become over thinker and depressed as the moon and ocean have direct impact on us.

We can bring emotional Stablity by recognizing this pattern. If you are mentally prepared for sudden emotional outbreak in Purnima(full moon) and Amavasya (no moon) we can decrease the severity of it caused in our daily life.

Family and friends would be less judgemental and would be more understanding about your fluctuating behaviour.

World needs more healing and less pain.

If we correct and recognize these patterns in ourselves first then we can help others also.

Brain does not need to put its hands in emotion otherwise it would destroy relation with overthinking and logics. Brain only needs to alert us when we are unstable emotionally and crack some good jokes to relief our heart and mind.

Yes, apply your sense of humour to yourself intentionally when your mood is spoiled.

Although God's help is always present with us. Just believe. 

Enjoy gazing at stars.. Sun will join you later on!

Who is responsible for the bad things happened in our life? Others or us?

Forgiving others is a one thing through which the matter is resolved but if it still bothers then we need to forgive ourselves also for making the wrong choices. Sometimes even after knowing it all.. Even  not trusting our own gut feelings..we have to forgive ourselves.

 That's when we are 100% Free and burden less of drama and trauma.

We think..:Everytime bad happens to us only'.. We have to simply release this mentality. People doing bad to others intentionally are doing bad to themselves. Giving pain to others would return in the form of disease. Disease which dissolves ego of even the "father of ego"

Being open minded, loyal and nice will be comforting for ourselves in long run.

Strongest people are loyal, weakest one are cheaters.

Cheaters are actually comfort seekers, escaping the bitter truth.. Until they learn the only way to get out of repetitive things is to face the pain honestly and not hurting others in the process. Cheaters are confusers, they themselves don't know what they want and confuses and hurt good people in their life whether family, friends, lovers.

Meanwhile, we taking 100% responsiblity of our conditions is the mature step. Blaming and gossiping won't solve entangled wires of feelings. To condition and sow good feelings we have to empty ourselves and clear karma by correcting our mistakes.🌸

Time and patience makes heart stonger and richer with positivity. Don't worry, Don't hurry, just relax.. Let the dry leaf fall on the ground and let the new one grow.. Breath & enjoy the darkness with stars in the night..sun will join your company too afterwards. 🌷

Foundation of 0.

Everyone wants unbreakable foundation in life.We start from 0 and reach whatever level till 9 in life.

Problem starts when the succeeding levels of life breaks. And takes us to 0 again. Zero doesn't have minus or plus. It is neutral.

We put unhealthy sad emotions to the 0 stage of life. We think we don't deserve this. But infact, it is the original purest form of life, you should enjoy and be more enthusiastic about it.

You will be shocked to know that the emotions are actually the most practical side of humans. If we decode it precisly, people are content because of emotions even if they have nothing or live in jungles or village.. They are happy there because they are actually intelligent one than city people.

Whatever stage of life we reach, always remember the original you. The original you is free from hatred, jealousy, insecurity, greed, sadness, desires.

7 billion people on earth are channelling at frequency zero.. The basic form of every human.Everyone is of same age, same soul, same formation.

We- less aware people fight for nothing but self created acts and opinions.

Foundation is always 0 and not 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9 level of life.No one can break zero but can break others level. Always be excited to begin from zero. Don't fear of losing people, job, money, status, friends because they are not our foundation and stability but only breakable succeeding levels of life. The real unbreakable, fixed foundation is our soul which never breaks because it is the creator, preserver & destroyer.. More powerful than everything, everyone.

Emotional CPU of human!

Every time.. Everywhere we won't find peace. We will get small moments of peace but it is not possible to reach peace every time if our emotional CPU is slow and emotional storage is full.

Very few knows the wiring & operation of emotional CPU in human. Those who know are happy, healthy, content.

Emotions are wavy like ocean.Our understanding controls emotions.

So lets understand this..

Emotional CPU processes - negative and positive emotion. Whatever thought we consciously or unconsciously CLICK on mind, CPU processes that form of emotional ouput.

For eg.If We think, Nobody loves me.

Then emotional CPU will bring all negative emotions associated to it.

Then as output, we start to feel grief,disappointment,loneliness, lethargy.

We have to CONSCIOUSLY think good to achive good outcome which will also speed up our emotional CPU. And we won't stuck to certain things for too long. We will become the lion ' the ruler ' of our emotions.

Always clear up past heavy emotional storage to work efficiently specially before sleeping. Because night darkness forces our mind to go back on haunting past.Before sleeping having positive affirmations are must. Giving Gratitude for food, water, shelter, family, education, money is important to wake up lightly next day.

Addictions : Unnecessary attachment.

Addictions! Are they good or bad?

First understand what addiction is..it is imbalance created by us due to pain & fear in life. When we are escaping truth, we include additional unnecessary habit in our life to hide the issue.

Today's world is hugely suffering from addiction whether of alcohol, drugs, pleasure, person or material things, money etc.

How addiction arise? When our pain in not transformed into motivation but disappointment we tend to seek comfort in unnecessary habits.

These bad things seems so simple to adopt without any difficulties & efforts that we start to follow frequently until it becomes our habit, our obsession then over years our addiction.

We are so demotivated that we think it is impossible in this life to get over our bad addiction. And so as you think, as happen.

In reality all we need is to be more understandable to ourselves to realease toxic behavior.

First step begins with list out your toxic addiction. Then accept it. Now ask yourself the reason you adopted it. You will mostly find reason to be heartbreak, physical or mental abuse,death of close one,loneliness,toxic friends or family, insult by someone, high expectations.

Solution to this issue is to recognize it & be aware of it and distance yourself from unhealthy people, situations.

Become your raw or basic form.. The original you. Yes, you. You are here to be the best for yourself & your soul. God won't help you if you don't help yourself first.

Recognize pattern & timing of your bad habits. Don't seek comfort in others & substances, you will drown.

Seek comfort in your original self, love your qualities you do have, believe (write this on your wall), once you start believing yourself, noone can shake you. Because now you are aware, aware of darkness. Don't hate darkness, just don't deal with it, ignore it. Carry on increasing your light,positivity & happiness.❤️

Mind is the kitchen of body, whatever you cook in your mind you will be served out in reality. Mind is controlled by awareness & practice.. Better with meditation.. even if of 2min. focus on your breathing 😊